tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35942387847307879732024-03-05T06:43:08.659-05:00Jonathan's updatesRebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.comBlogger133125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-3019811854773061532010-11-26T17:59:00.005-05:002010-11-26T23:06:26.378-05:002 Years Later.......a letter from JonathanOk, where to start?<br /><br />Well, it's been 2 years since death knocked on my door & I answered and said "What's poppin, killa?", and slapped him in the mouth haha. I'm just playin I know that it was all God, cause He knew that since I sunburn easy I wouldn't have done well in Hell and they don't make SPF strong enough for that, haha. <br /><br />Ok, seriously, I know that not everyone reading this may believe in Hell, but if you don't believe in gravity, so what, you're wrong, and if you jump off a mountain you'll find out very fast how very wrong you are. I'd rather be safe than sorry. Being that science said I wasn't supposed to be born, and about 2 years ago science said I wouldn't live and if I somehow did that I would be a vegetable and now I can walk and talk, I'll stick with my belief in a loving, merciful God. <br /><br />Ok, quick summary of the last two years:<br />People who know me know that I was a very crazy angry white boy who was very quick to get violent and physical when i felt I needed to. Then I came home 110 lbs, haha. I couldn't get very physical even if I wanted to, so I switched it to verbal abuse. If I would ever hear some one speak to my family the way I did when I got home, that person would possibly be dead or wish they were. So, I also have realizes my true friends, fake friends and those just using me for what I could do or get for them, and hos important family and God is. I've had to change my cell # to get away from dumb guys and brawds. So, I will not post it on here, but if you not dumb email me at J2ndchance82@yahoo.com and I will email it to you. I've talked to many of you, but not all. So email me if you want. <br /><br />So, I have seen many physical doctors & brain doctors and have been told I have some limitations and am not ready to go back to work, yet. I told them I've always been this crazy so not sure if it will get better haha. But, I do know and have see my short term memory problems from time to time. So, not I know y'all have prayed for me a lot but please keep it up. I can still use it. And be ready for one thing - I pray every night that God would bless those who have blessed be with their love, concern, support and prayers. So, be ready for your blessing. I know God will hook it up. <br /><br />Thanks again y'all - love y'all!<br /><br />2 Years later......<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWfeJsCKj9xKIvnJN_ynD9Kas7IucngbCwWcSy5t-px-XGCJiCuT-LgDWIzxnnLEMMXur8MOV-VoFEdQocDrKV5UnMWfb1CHGUfNVMKgFAHbzuBYkMxh4mXHP38bq8h8FKQrOLpqI9F9z0/s1600/jon.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWfeJsCKj9xKIvnJN_ynD9Kas7IucngbCwWcSy5t-px-XGCJiCuT-LgDWIzxnnLEMMXur8MOV-VoFEdQocDrKV5UnMWfb1CHGUfNVMKgFAHbzuBYkMxh4mXHP38bq8h8FKQrOLpqI9F9z0/s320/jon.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5544000945408651938" /></a>Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-69420047401964340062010-09-29T08:42:00.008-04:002010-09-29T09:33:35.620-04:00Wednesday, September 29thAfter almost 3 months I figured an update was in order. There hasn't been a ton of activity or happenings for me to tell you about. Still, there have been some things going on that I can fill you in on.<br /><br />The last post on here was about Jonathan being cleared to drive. Well, about a month ago he got a letter in the mail stating that he had to re-take another driving test and be evaluated once again. What we are assuming is that the woman that administered the test the first time, and did not pass him, reported him in some way. Jonathan was pretty nervous. After already having been driving for months now that privilege could have possibly been taken away again. Well, praise the Lord - he passed. I say that out of pure joy, because being around him had he not passed - dear Jesus help me. Thankfully, he did and we didn't have to worry about all of that. :)<br /><br />Also, in the way of Jonathan's life updates, he just completed another workout course at our church. Every Tuesday & Saturday evening, for 6 weeks, he provided an hour workout class. It is definitely his forte. It's something that he definitely thrives at, and loves. The ladies that were involved just loved it, and can't wait til he offers it again. <br /><br />Perhaps the most exciting thing that has happened since the last post - our sister had her baby. It is the first grandchild, first niece and their first child. So, to say that her arrival was a big event would be a huge understatement. All of us, except for our oldest brother who couldn't get off of work, made the trip home to be there. Oh, what a sweet bundle of heaven she is!! Rachel & Bryon are just the cutest parents, and little Mercy is the most beautiful baby ever. Of course, we are partial to think this, but really, she is! Jonathan has already named himself "Uncle SJ" - Santa Jonathan. He is looking forward to spoiling her. Mom and I haven't waited long to get that process started. :)<br /><br />It's been since June that I updated the blog here, and those couple of months have been relatively good ones. Unbelievable that in just 2 short months we will be celebrating the 2 year anniversary of Jonathan's accident and life spared. Thank you to all of you - for your prayers, your support and your love. It's been quite a process/journey. We're ever so grateful for those that have been there with us the entire time. Many great things still yet to come. We'll make sure to share them all with you, so you can continue to see the prayers you prayed almost 2 years ago still coming to pass!<br /><br /> <br /> a few pics:<br /><br /> Jon's new ride - NOLA inspired Land Rover<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMajAzn03ezdEijO9WLb4IV1O_aVp5GGco9kC7_g9kChSTZ7vdqqe-Y-wFLQNu6PfotNN992Jbl5bZNV6byMyxMtzGNY1htA_mLoYMB2Nee8lnDxIBtwSJoT_I2yc3JihZp0gAH9cpjuOY/s1600/25797_1212087237330_1683258582_421060_3536919_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMajAzn03ezdEijO9WLb4IV1O_aVp5GGco9kC7_g9kChSTZ7vdqqe-Y-wFLQNu6PfotNN992Jbl5bZNV6byMyxMtzGNY1htA_mLoYMB2Nee8lnDxIBtwSJoT_I2yc3JihZp0gAH9cpjuOY/s320/25797_1212087237330_1683258582_421060_3536919_n.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5522327212889653074" /></a><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMdsQdaispA0FBOYtJoWODd19t71bj0fJW3mw0sAn7pE2Fp_ZprxpMmL7oHbbr6Ssld0JGfzbbHjgmQedJTTMr8kqqFZpgtw2uZKwSN_1pcBxzZF9hskRg2pkCfSR-a74um25U7qV5360H/s1600/truck1.bmp"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMdsQdaispA0FBOYtJoWODd19t71bj0fJW3mw0sAn7pE2Fp_ZprxpMmL7oHbbr6Ssld0JGfzbbHjgmQedJTTMr8kqqFZpgtw2uZKwSN_1pcBxzZF9hskRg2pkCfSR-a74um25U7qV5360H/s320/truck1.bmp" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5522327361472996690" /></a><br /><br /> Uncle "SJ" & his little neice<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg-cqyJQtPUdY4bkRCAgAlJgyGhBGyTrhwYUyz3MOi2xVZ81Kgi9gsvUVKX37ktZB-QPP94QQi6n-TbSQ8uNqLRsNS-CxcaN0UdcURNhl04mNBI1-z6r_XesjsoIipCpY0HJjYuJ8HndH_S/s1600/jon2.bmp"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 238px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg-cqyJQtPUdY4bkRCAgAlJgyGhBGyTrhwYUyz3MOi2xVZ81Kgi9gsvUVKX37ktZB-QPP94QQi6n-TbSQ8uNqLRsNS-CxcaN0UdcURNhl04mNBI1-z6r_XesjsoIipCpY0HJjYuJ8HndH_S/s320/jon2.bmp" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5522327709809367778" /></a>Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-19194491444641418082010-06-09T10:23:00.002-04:002010-06-09T10:43:45.537-04:00June 9, 2010Quite a bit has taken place since the last post. Though, the most sinificant is that JONATHAN HAS BEEN CLEARED TO DRIVE!! About a week ago, maybe 2 now, Jonathan got the official release to begin driving again. You can't even imagine the elation that came with that news. Freedom, on any level, is so vital. He's gotten to go to wal-mart on his own, drive to hang out with his brother, etc. and he's loving every minute of it. Dad recently completed all the finishing touches on his "NOLA" Land Rover. Nearly everything on the truck is custom and he's so thrilled. He's talking alot about going back to school a year from now. He's even been talking recently about even trying to train for basketball again. There's definitely a sense of urgency to fulfill dreams and live his life to the fullest. Of course, when life is nearly taken away from you - your appreciation for it should most definitely grow. For him it aboslutely has.<br /><br />He's really doing well. He's still living at mom and dad's house. He wants to be much more comfortable driving before he starts to go back to work. With school now as an option he's trying to figure out things right now. So, his future is wide open with many options and dreams to fulfill. Please, continue praying as He seeks the Lord for what HIS plans are for Jonathan. We know they are much bigger than even what we could dream up. He's such a good, faithful and merciful God. Each day I stand in awe of Him. Each day, even the hard ones, He shows that He's got Jonathan and this family in the palm of His hands. It's crazy to think that we're already over the year and a half marker since the journey began. Thank you to all that have been there every step of the way. So many of you weren't able to be there physically, but supported us the entire time in your prayers. They are ever so appreciated. We are ever so grateful!Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-58616653138820792562010-04-09T09:07:00.005-04:002010-04-09T10:19:33.824-04:00Friday, April 9, 2010OK, so it's been a while since I last posted. I've heard a few requests come in through e-mail. So, this is for all of those at PMSI - here's your shout out! :) And if there's anyone else that's still keeping up with this....journey, then thank you for your continued prayers.<br /><br />The first thing I must say here for the world to see - GEAUX SAINTS!!! You can't even imagine how exciting this was, and still is, for all of us New Orleans natives. It definitely made for a great start to the year!<br /><br />We're now in April of 2010 - over a year since Jonathan has been at home and out of the hospital, almost a year exactly since we had his "2ND Chance" celebration. Oh, how many things are different and oh, how many things are the same. That is one thing that I love about my brother - He is consistently him. <br /><br />On the last post, in January, I asked that everyone pray for Jonathan as he was going to take his driving test and wanted desperately to pass. Unfortunately, he did not pass that test. Though, we have since found out that specific test wasn't completely necessary. I assure you, this whole process has been quite confusing and supremely frustrating for all parties involved. Since that test, Jonathan received a letter in the mail from the Florida DMV stating that in order to get cleared to drive he would need a release from His eye Dr. and general practitioner ensuring that he was physically able to do so. He did receive both, and now he waits to see if he will have to take the normal DMV driving test for the state of Florida. The one he took in January was not through the DMV, but for victims of accidents such as his. So, to say the least - this has been a very big source of frustration on every one's part, but none more than Jonathan. He is desperate to drive - to get back to "life" as he says. He wants to work, and have his "freedom" back. To get in the car and go to walmart when HE wants and not have to wait on someone to take him. Those little things that we all take for granted are so precious to him now.<br /><br />He and dad have been working on his truck. If you don't know, though I don't know how you wouldn't since he's been shouting it from the rooftops, he has a Land Rover that dad is repairing and restoring. This is what they do. Dad used to be in the automotive body repair business before He became a pastor, and even still sometime after. So, he's been working on the Land Rover with Jonathan's urging, and it is almost complete. It will be a complete New Orleans Saints mobile. They're doing a custom paint job of black and Gold and he has every Saint specific decoration for his car imaginable - including the fuzzy dice! :) <br /><br />Other than that, as many of you know Jonathan went into the hospital at 205 lbs and came out at around 110lbs. So, he has been working out as much as his body allows and is determined to gain back all that weight. So, as part of his "get-in-shape" initiative he has also been holding a workout class at our church on Tuesday and Saturday nights. A few of the ladies at the church are taking advantage of this free personal trainer hour and he thoroughly enjoys being able to help.<br /><br />So, overall, this year so far has been much better than the last, and we are believing that trend will only continue. Many, many thanks to everyone who has kept Jonathan in your prayers throughout this year and a half. It's been a rough road most of the time, but one of victory and triumph in the midst of it all.<br /><br />Here's a few pictures from this year so far:<br /> Jonathan at our cousing Amy's wedding <br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi4Je0m_F6yh5P9UQJobomDcRS93gKamFZii9s4XVBqhcX4AfeHZauptsYw6AIRMiSE0bupo-YHH9POOB_kuuokire42D_CGz4RendJWf4i-DSMoHl6xqwiLZ_g1TnXC3woHCDCGCNGShVt/s1600/5.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi4Je0m_F6yh5P9UQJobomDcRS93gKamFZii9s4XVBqhcX4AfeHZauptsYw6AIRMiSE0bupo-YHH9POOB_kuuokire42D_CGz4RendJWf4i-DSMoHl6xqwiLZ_g1TnXC3woHCDCGCNGShVt/s320/5.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5458139601128757490" /></a><br /> Jonathan and Rachel (our older sister) and baby on the way<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjARMpNpzlkX6h5HY86KQO6jzXZcB66tIN_DVZYJPcigwc0i08NO4SQ879K_MVyrQfeP5M3o5w2cYdJI_jYX2BEyD0veqnJMCy_dJaXK1SJtCEbfbslpkI6PPL7wGpwuYkIm05pXAvEiwTf/s1600/4.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 310px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjARMpNpzlkX6h5HY86KQO6jzXZcB66tIN_DVZYJPcigwc0i08NO4SQ879K_MVyrQfeP5M3o5w2cYdJI_jYX2BEyD0veqnJMCy_dJaXK1SJtCEbfbslpkI6PPL7wGpwuYkIm05pXAvEiwTf/s320/4.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5458139747251325602" /></a><br /> Jonathan at home - in the French Quarter<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEioFcRRQXDum5203wowKB71J-5H_DKx2NK3lEm6h6477T1M7WXfTAVUAW3U-W-tD7swhfHCaIuzODz6-q41YH1uJQ6w07X7TMLLe3VsJi0bw86-5g0snqTdDIvrBY4KS9YWqjUxgfEy_h33/s1600/1.bmp"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEioFcRRQXDum5203wowKB71J-5H_DKx2NK3lEm6h6477T1M7WXfTAVUAW3U-W-tD7swhfHCaIuzODz6-q41YH1uJQ6w07X7TMLLe3VsJi0bw86-5g0snqTdDIvrBY4KS9YWqjUxgfEy_h33/s320/1.bmp" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5458139921267592850" /></a>Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-68213411951613788122010-01-25T21:42:00.002-05:002010-01-25T21:44:59.949-05:00January 25, 2010It's been so long since I updated, but this is still going to be quick. Jonathan's driving test is tomorrow. Please be in prayer for him to pass. His heart is set on it. So, please lift him up tomorrow. The test is extensive - an hour and a half long. He'll need patience, which is lacking in most of us Newman's. :) I'll keep you all posted on the results.Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-12463008017247474662009-12-22T09:02:00.008-05:002009-12-22T09:37:00.202-05:00December 22, 2009It's been over a month since the last post, and word on the street is that people are requesting an update. So, Hello to everyone at PMSI! :)<br /><br />As always, this has been an interesting and eventful month in the Newman house. The last update was in reference to Jonathan's surgery. As most, if not all, of you know - everything went great. They may have to go in again to put in a different kind of tube, but still, there were no major complications, infections or anything along those lines. <br /><br />At the end of November, in celebration of 1 year since Jonathan's accident, the whole family met in Georgia for a week in the mountains. If you know our family on any level, you know that such a peaceful place didn't stay as such for long. :) We're a loud and crazy bunch, and we had a great time. Sure, there were events that we could have done without, but overall it was a great trip. As there are no TV's there, SCRABBLE was an every night competition. It's safe to say that we may have one of THE MOST competitive bunch around. Scrabble was definitely played on a level that most board games never achieve. :)<br /><br />We're still amazed that it's been a year since the accident. Oh, what a year it has been. One of great trial, but one of great triumph! In looking back, we couldn't help but want to bless those that are in similar situations as we were this time last year. So, Jonathan got to cooking and mom got to shopping. Last night, with goodie bags, plush toy craw fish, almond balls, jambalaya and beer battered craw fish in tow me, mom, dad and Jonathan made our way up to the ICU floor at Tampa General. We visited the waiting room that was our "home" for over a month last year, and talked with those whose loved ones were presently there. Some cried as they told us their story, some expressed their faith that God would do the same for their situation as He did for ours, but all were amazed and hopeful in looking at Jonathan who was possibly worse off then their loved one, but now walking and talking and of course cracking jokes! :) Many said it was a blessing to them to have us come, but I promise you - the pleasure was all ours. To be on the other end, with the ability to proclaim God's goodness and come with a literal living testimony...simply priceless!!<br /><br />After we talked to all the families in the waiting room, we went to visit the nurses and patients back in the ICU. We saw some of the faces that took care of Jonathan last year, and all were amazed! They rarely get to see what their work has done. When people leave the ICU they're not yet in the "finishing" stages of their recovery, and they rarely get to see that. So, last night was a treat for them. Of course, we came bearing treats of all kind - Jambalaya, cat fish and our infamous almond balls. Jonathan also ordered plush craw fish from mardi gras outlet in LA to give to the patients in ICU and the nurses and staff. We stayed back there for a while visiting with everyone since it was a "slow night" back there. We went over to "Jonathan's room" number 5122 where He was last year for over a month. I got a little teary eyed standing outside of the room with him, watching him talk and laugh and joke with the nurses and staff. Oh, how far we have come!! <br /><br />This year has been...hard, remarkable, rewarding, blessed, stressful, crazy, joyful, and inspirational all at once. We've cried more then ever, and laughed more than before. We've rejoiced for all that God's done, while crying out for Him to continue the work that is still necessary. He has been SO faithful. That is the one word that has new meaning or true meaning - FAITHFUL - that's what He is. Even in the most devastating of times, when it seems our world is crashing down - He's faithful! He's proven Himself over and over and over again.<br /><br />As we told the many families last night - we would not be here but for the prayers of so many around this nation and world. Your prayers, and the prayers of countless others were heard, and were answered. We can't thank you enough. There are no words to express our gratitude, so THANK YOU will have to suffice, and we ask that they continue! :)<br /><br />Here are a few pictures from our Georgia Trip:<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhiGwltXmn7mvWExyCQkefskAQdU12uhsP3mbH4Qt67MSK8qCIsQdcVLjbPoO5UPU7LUOwtJsQrqGJQvOUL5byr9YxPCDC6dtVFlVdNgQaH0jHSvBCITZVzbqjfazSZtjPm5Cu4IQuDQ-r2/s1600-h/family.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 233px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhiGwltXmn7mvWExyCQkefskAQdU12uhsP3mbH4Qt67MSK8qCIsQdcVLjbPoO5UPU7LUOwtJsQrqGJQvOUL5byr9YxPCDC6dtVFlVdNgQaH0jHSvBCITZVzbqjfazSZtjPm5Cu4IQuDQ-r2/s320/family.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5418067107794226962" /></a><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWedoNCqimycb-L8CWYD2xVnBo1Yc14iHIhlCyjMkW3LutEPg-1aEFruZZOz9VEU7ai1A_4bH1O7PU_nzN2baHpda5HGSXxejGUleA-rbmFbSsYRXLEHycIHoucCZk1LtNB697MEsuVfcM/s1600-h/kids.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 258px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWedoNCqimycb-L8CWYD2xVnBo1Yc14iHIhlCyjMkW3LutEPg-1aEFruZZOz9VEU7ai1A_4bH1O7PU_nzN2baHpda5HGSXxejGUleA-rbmFbSsYRXLEHycIHoucCZk1LtNB697MEsuVfcM/s320/kids.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5418067268490271090" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br />And last night - Jonathan now standing on the OUTSIDE of room 5122:<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgNIP0lhHqRImz0_KZ_bVrl82oHkyTvMKJe-DsyVUslDcMjTvP9OfmRP-eymirPEJ94S7IkPMUJVuhnEFM3eCB4LlMhkYl2SbTuNy60Dxv3gjaOKy924PLuxeAQoHH14cIK3YPDpIAvJjT0/s1600-h/jonathanicu.bmp"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgNIP0lhHqRImz0_KZ_bVrl82oHkyTvMKJe-DsyVUslDcMjTvP9OfmRP-eymirPEJ94S7IkPMUJVuhnEFM3eCB4LlMhkYl2SbTuNy60Dxv3gjaOKy924PLuxeAQoHH14cIK3YPDpIAvJjT0/s320/jonathanicu.bmp" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5418067623964020370" /></a>Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-6217762596904545542009-11-13T21:27:00.002-05:002009-11-13T21:45:44.860-05:00November 13, 2009So, today was Jonathan's surgery. All went well. It was definitely longer than I anticipated it would be - 8 hours! I didn't realize just how much was necessary. Though they were simply repairing the tear duct in his right eye - it was anything but simple. In order to do so they had to re-arrange his right eye socket which makes it all more detailed. While it was a long surgery he came out of it just as he went into it - goofy and making jokes. I happen to be wearing a plaid shirt today. When I saw him in recovery, just after surgery, he asked me, with a smirk on his face, why I was wearing a table cloth as a dress. :) So, you can see - he's good! :)<br /><br />I must say that it was a bit of an odd feeling pulling back up to the hospital. Though my mom and dad have accompanied Jonathan to appointments here, I haven't been back since Jonathan was released. Now, I'm here once again staying the night and updating everyone on his progress. It's weird, but it's a good place from where we were back then. Almost a year ago I was asking everyone to pray for his life. Now, I'm telling you how wonderfully he's doing, and just how far he's come. God is simply amazing. I realize it every day when I watch him. I sit here, in this waiting room, positively in awe!<br /><br />Thank you to all that are still reading, to all that are still praying and to all that have been doing so from the very first day. It's because of the power of your prayers that we are here today. God has been so faithful. Thank you for being the same in your prayers!Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-27099210033765738802009-11-05T08:24:00.004-05:002009-11-05T08:56:31.988-05:00Thursday, November 5, 2009It's amazingly absurd to think that in just 3 weeks we will be celebrating the 1 year anniversary of Jonathan's accident. I say celebrate because I can promise you that's what we will be doing - celebrating his life and giving thanks for all that God has done and is doing. It's been a crazy year. It's been a trying and heart breaking year, but it's also been a year of many miracles and much growth. We're preparing for a family trip that week. We decided, after years of talking about it, that there's no time like the present and we are heading up to a cabin in the GA mountains for a week with the entire Newman/Beesley clan. I'm sure it will be a mixture of fun and "adventure"!<br /><br />In the mean time, Jonathan's got an upcoming surgery. On November 13 Jonathan will be having surgery to repair his eye duct. His right eye was severely damaged in the accident, so much so that complete sight was lost. Accompanied with that nerve damage, the tear duct was completely torn. So, they are going in to repair that so his eye will drain properly again. As you can imagine, any surgery is not an event he'd like to participate in. So, please pray for peace and comfort through the process. It's not an extensive surgery and he'll be home the same day. Still, it's one that brings some distress to his mind and heart. So, just agree with us for peace to accompany him. We're so glad that these "cosmetic" surgeries are the only ones left. God's healing power is simply amazing!<br /><br />I spoke to a group of friends last night about the amazement of all that's take place. One asked what my initial reaction was when I got the phone call about the accident. We talked for a couple more minutes, and as I relived some of those horrific moments, tears welled up in my eyes. So often we take for granted the life that God's given to us. I'd like to say that I no longer do and that each day at the Newman house is a "love fest" of sorts...oh, I'd LIKE to say that!! Still, even after something like this, in difficult moments we seem to dismiss love from our conversation until we are ready for it's presence again. We have gotten better, how could we not? Each day is a reminder of how good God is. Each time that crazy boy walks out of his room with his dog faithfully following behind him we are reminded. Each time we hear the clank of the glass and spoon as he stirs his chocolate milk - I swear he has become addicted since the accident - we are reminded. Each time he argues, Lord knows how often that is, we are reminded that we still have the opportunity to hear his opinion....and yes, we have to remind ourselves we ARE thankful for that! :)<br /><br />Here are a few recent pictures of Jonathan that I thought I might share. Some of you don't get the opportunity to physically see all that God is doing. So....<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgL0upnOlJbmXkoJv1hk8YmfRI2oD-RYGtUfzx5FbLv2EQPjwWed3LR8oTI0IjMAr-zjgDdwuyeRoTnoqOo6ODgGBLCEpPwc7j7cN9ZtQ5ee5tkZ-PNzYFDf6XX8pKoG8wep0lMJuRKbwPG/s1600-h/6930_177925443488_508258488_2728926_81129_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgL0upnOlJbmXkoJv1hk8YmfRI2oD-RYGtUfzx5FbLv2EQPjwWed3LR8oTI0IjMAr-zjgDdwuyeRoTnoqOo6ODgGBLCEpPwc7j7cN9ZtQ5ee5tkZ-PNzYFDf6XX8pKoG8wep0lMJuRKbwPG/s320/6930_177925443488_508258488_2728926_81129_n.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5400615819702512386" /></a><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgRel5mg21MO7keZ3bliZTyLtEse97AxMdqX78oxgMR7qct9P2oHjKmfRLN-xcBVpyfZApfoPtNr3k-Xe1vsBy0j4eoleTsU-ZsnrdSEC4fOcCqF-jCbXmeEj5dxRI_ELiibWRREVRaNF6Y/s1600-h/6930_177925433488_508258488_2728925_4339020_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgRel5mg21MO7keZ3bliZTyLtEse97AxMdqX78oxgMR7qct9P2oHjKmfRLN-xcBVpyfZApfoPtNr3k-Xe1vsBy0j4eoleTsU-ZsnrdSEC4fOcCqF-jCbXmeEj5dxRI_ELiibWRREVRaNF6Y/s320/6930_177925433488_508258488_2728925_4339020_n.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5400615964719565554" /></a><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLnEzjFhx9kgzocyVXFaGdihHKsYKa_kE4BpoNP7NYExFn4xw1xHLEPidg0jv3CmnDKVILoTTatG9v1gvlp8OMdAs1MCLTeZe3ax0-ZtQ_5WnF2bC_vTVHup4eLQ60lb1lmXI7hi24Qh5s/s1600-h/13768_183931988488_508258488_2786790_3807595_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLnEzjFhx9kgzocyVXFaGdihHKsYKa_kE4BpoNP7NYExFn4xw1xHLEPidg0jv3CmnDKVILoTTatG9v1gvlp8OMdAs1MCLTeZe3ax0-ZtQ_5WnF2bC_vTVHup4eLQ60lb1lmXI7hi24Qh5s/s320/13768_183931988488_508258488_2786790_3807595_n.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5400616113233877490" /></a><br /><br />PS <br />I have to share, in way of other simply amazing news, after years of praying and "trying" my sister and her husband are expecting their first little bundle of joy - they're pregnant!!!Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-37821276299439321292009-10-06T19:39:00.002-04:002009-10-06T20:07:58.688-04:00Prayer NeedI know that many of you have stopped reading, but those of you that are still checking here is an update:<br /><br />Jonathan went this week to take his eye exam. HE PASSED!!!!! He was so excited and is still. The doctor said that while he passed, because his scores were rather low he is required to take some classes to learn how to drive with a disability before he can actually take the driving exam. So, there's still a few more hoops to jump through. However, we're still moving forward and that's the most thing. <br /><br />There is still frustration that things aren't moving fast enough. It's still unbelievable that we've come so far. We're nearing on the one year anniversary of the accident. It's pretty surreal amd amazing all that God has done. Thank you for your continued prayers throughout all this time. We are still very much in need of those prayers so keep them coming our way.<br /><br />Also, in way of updates - mom's hand is doing well. She is using it more and more each day. She has 60% use of her index fingers while all the rest are near full mobility. She is continuing in therapy and believing that God will restore her hand to full strength.<br /><br />We appreciate your prayers more than you could ever know! Thank you<br /><br /><em>*There has been another need brought to our attention. Our former youth pastor was rushed to the emergency room last night. Various test are being performed to diagnosis the problems. Please keep him and their family in your prayers. This blog has provided an outlet for prayers around the world. We have seen the power of those prayers first hand and are asking that you would lift him up believing for his full healing.*</em>Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-63299664432975871952009-09-04T08:41:00.002-04:002009-09-04T09:05:05.123-04:00Friday, Sepetember 4<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj933Cmtsx25Ia891b3zrSn680hYx3orEw86N7S9klTv97NuzlPsRckdK35fBAtYqjJwxXgC9azVkouppL3duWaKcSdKMPsutU7qJHLs98rgBXA2GuRt458P_D0Z_P1vB-Wkv8dmRpzDkyy/s1600-h/menjon.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj933Cmtsx25Ia891b3zrSn680hYx3orEw86N7S9klTv97NuzlPsRckdK35fBAtYqjJwxXgC9azVkouppL3duWaKcSdKMPsutU7qJHLs98rgBXA2GuRt458P_D0Z_P1vB-Wkv8dmRpzDkyy/s320/menjon.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5377597514098056386" /></a><br />Thought I'd share a picture I absolutely LOVE of Jon. We rarely get a real smile captured in a photo. So, I wanted to share it with you - it just might be my favorite smile ever!<br /><br /><br />So, in keeping with my promise to try and post more frequent updates - here I am! Though, there's not much to "report". Last week Jonathan went to an appointment for which he was supposed to get an eye exam to see if he could take a driving test. Well, evidently, it was an appointment to schedule an appointment for an eye exam, which you can imagine he was not too happy about! :) So, his actual eye exam is October 1st. They are all booked up until then. He's being pretty patient about the whole thing. Sure, he's anxious to get things started again, but just recently it seems he's learning to wait a little better through the process. <br /><br />This month he's got two appointment with the plastic surgeon and the ENT (ear, nose and throat DR.) to talk about some repairs that will be made. No, he's not having a face lift :) nor are they changing the structure of his face - he's too pretty for that!! They are simply repairing what was damaged in the accident. His right eye, the one that lost vision, often leaks tears because the tear duct was completely ripped during the accident. Also, because he broke every bone in his face there are some repairs that will be done to his nose. Jonathan joked to the Dr. that he didn't want to come out looking like Michael Jackson. . . always the funny guy!<br /><br />Other than that - it's a wait and see deal still. We're still waiting on everything to fall into place and see what the next steps are. I suppose that's the frustrating part in all of this - we can't really plan. We don't know what's going to happen or when. So, we're all just in a waiting period, which none of us, especially big J, are a fan of. Still, we trust. We know that through it all God is preparing - us, the future and all it holds for all that He has. Obviously we're not ready for it all just yet, though we think we are. :)<br /><br />So, continue to pray. I will say, the past two weeks have been better. There have been tense times for sure and some altercations, but not to the extent that they had been. Please continue to pray that would be the case. We see God working. We continue to trust that His ways are higher than ours and our little understanding can't fathom all that He is doing. We covet your prayers even still and ask that they would continue.Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-62534904686678225562009-08-20T10:37:00.002-04:002009-08-20T10:58:36.646-04:00Thursday, August 20, 2009It's been nearly a month since I've updated here. I'm not sure how many people are still checking. Still, I actually remembered today to update so here it is:<br /><br />A few weeks ago Jonathan had his psych eval. We got the results back a couple of weeks afterward. The evaluation was to see if Jonathan could be cleared to work and drive. The psychologist who administered the evaluation said that she did not think that he was ready to work just yet do to his current social skills and other abilities. Though, she didn't want to write that in her report and say that he could not. She also didn't want to write that he was OK to work because the moment he is "cleared" to work all of his benefits would end. Since, from the evaluation, her conclusion is that he is not ready, yet he is adamant that he is - she is leaving that decision up to him, but advising that he start slowly. His sight is still a main factor in the type of work that he can do. Looking at a computer for the large part of the day and trying to type probably won't be a good option for him. So, the possibility of work for/with Charlie is the best bet currently. Jonathan has recently purposed that he wants to go back to school to finish his degree and become a teacher so that he can also coach. Many ideas and goals are coming to him. It will be exciting to see where God takes him. <br /><br />As far as driving goes - there are a few steps he still has to walk. First, he has to have an eye exam. As you already know - he still has no sight in his right eye. So, the exam will be extensive. That is scheduled for next week some time. Also, after the eye exam, depending on his passing, he will have to take a very extensive driving test. This will test his reaction time, his depth perception amongst other things. If he does not pass the driving exam there are some classes he will have to take that would teach him how to drive with an impairment. After those classes he can re-take the test. Additional things such as adding extra mirrors to his vehicle may be necessary.<br /><br />For now, it's still waiting for the continued process. We're all still holding on and trying our best to live it out. It's hard. It's hard for him to wait. It's hard for the family to endure him waiting :) , but we're all still here! God is still working - even when we're blinded by the current circumstance enough to forget it. He is, and we're still trusting. <br /><br />Just a quick little story:<br />The other night Jonathan's right eye was bothering him a lot. It was pretty irritated and red. So, I put a couple eye drops in it and some ointment around it. This is the eye that he lost sight in. After i was done playing nurse I told him God's getting it ready to be healed - that's why it's bothering him - it's healing. His response was - <strong>that'd be crazy awesome!</strong>! We talked about it a minute or two longer and I assured Him it was coming. Every fiber of my being believes God is going to restore sight. He then told me that if God healed him that there would be no turning back - He'd have to do youth ministry for sure!! We joked about it for a bit longer, and I told him just to wait and see - literally. . . . <br />I tell you this to ask you to please continue to pray for that need. So much is affected by his lack of sight in that right eye. So much glory will be given to God once the healing takes place. I know it's on its way and I just want to continue to ask everyone to please don't stop praying for that need. I can't wait for the day when I get to write, like countless other times through this process, God has answered your prayers!!Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-20702171047316014922009-07-16T11:13:00.002-04:002009-07-16T11:40:11.821-04:00Thursday, July 16, 2009As I asked you all to be praying for Jonathan's evaluation I wanted to let you know that we have yet to get the results back. Next week Jonathan and my parents will meet with the doctor to be notified of the results. As you can imagine - Jonathan is more than ready to hear them say that he is free to "start life" again. He's anxious to start working and most definitely driving. He's got a truck on the way from Louisiana that he's already made huge speaker boxes for. So, if you invite him over just listen for the big thump coming down the street. He won't even have to ring the door bell - you'll know he's there! :) However, before he starts putting his speakers on blast and riding around on his shiny new rims he'll have to 1) have permission to take the driving test and 2) pass a very extensive driving exam. In the exam they'll test him on his reaction time, depth perception, etc. - things that aren't normally covered in a driving test. So, there's still a few more hoops to jumo through and some more waiting. <br /><br />At times I am still in awe of all that God has done. In fact, just two days ago tears filled my eyes as I watched him walk into smoothie king. As most of you know, he is very intent on gaining back all of the 100+ lbs that he lost while in the hospital. So, at least 3-4 times a week we make our way to smoothie king to get a smoothie called "The Hulk". Each time either I run in to get it for him while he waits in the car or we both walk in. This time he started to get out of the car and I didn't. He asked if I was coming in and I said no. I asked if he was ok with going in by himself and he said yes, but as he was getting out he asked me once again "are you sure you don't want to come in?" I said yea, I'm sure and he shut the car door and made his way across the parking lot and into the store. I looked out my window and watched him closely as he crossed the street - we're all still pretty protective of him. As I watched him walking, tears just filled my eyes. It's been nearly 8 months since the accident. So much has changed in our lives and his. So many things are in it are frustrating and are out of our control, but it's moments like those that just put it all into perspective. Nearly 8 months ago I almost lost my brother. 8 months ago I drove to the hospital now knowing that the doctors would come in and ask us if we'd like to come say goodbye. 8 months ago i never imagined that I'd be sleeping on the floor of the ICU waiting room for weeks just so i could be close to him, and now - he's <strong>walking</strong> into smoothie king with a slight limp, but no walker, crutches or cane, to order his favorite strawberry hulk :). God is so good - beyond what words can express! We forget all that He's done at times when what has yet to take place seems overwhelming. He's still working just as he was in that ICU waiting room.<br /><br />So, thank you to everyone who still keeps updated and remains prayerful. It is the power of God and His people praying that has gotten us this far. There's still a journey to comeplete so keep those prayers coming. :)Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-45869826121286581562009-07-08T08:27:00.003-04:002009-07-08T08:58:37.504-04:00Wednesday, July 8, 2009I am writing in hopes that many will read this today and tomorrow. This morning starts Jonathan's phsycological evaluation. The evaluation is extended over two days time and will be completed tomorrow afternoon. It is a very extensive, intense and thorough test. As many of you know, there was some very minor brain damage caused by the accident. This evaluation will also see what that will or will not affect. Jonathan is, of course, very anxious about all of these tests and ready to show them that he is "not psycho". Although, that's not really the purpose of this evaluation, we're hoping for that same result. :) Beyond that though, clearance to work again and to possibly drive again, though further clearance would be necessary for driving privileges to be reinstated, is the desired outcome of this evaluation. <br /><br />He's come so far. It's hard to believe that the accident was nearly 8 months ago. Some days it seems like this process has been dragging on forever, longer for Jonathan I'm sure. Other days, it seems like it was just yesterday that I was at the side of his bed at 3am rubbing his hair because that was the only thing that seemed to calm him. It's been a crazy, uncertain, unwelcome and difficult journey. It's been hard in ways that my many words could never fully express, but it's also been life changing in ways that we are ever so grateful for. God's done a lot in these 8 months. I've seen His hand evident in so many instances growing up, but in my 25 years - have never, firsthand, experienced it like this. His grace truly is sufficient though, we mistake it's absence all too often. <br /><br />Thanks is all I can say for your many, many prayers. Though, I'm asking for them to continue. Regardless of the outcome of this evaluation - there's still a long road ahead. We absolutely covet your prayers and your support. When I started writing this blog I had no idea the amount of people that would read it. It was simply the easiest way to get a lot of information to a lot of different people. It quickly became a place for prayer needs and a showcase for God's amazing hand once they were answered. So, please, do not stop praying. <br /><br />Thought I'd post a recent pic so everyone could see for yourself all God's doing.<br />Jonathan & dad on Father's Day<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimzOU09isi-5tLu9ZJJwO4x-qyFFQcXpvXx_GAO8ioE74-75MJe6EF2f_Rtfaxz2pLZ0rUUmukn4w9Bmd2j56YcnRAxXD-UXUHe8O02rAoRdyW5oCeXy9C3s9OeEyMYqVWxtYtYBhmVeMQ/s1600-h/untitled.bmp"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimzOU09isi-5tLu9ZJJwO4x-qyFFQcXpvXx_GAO8ioE74-75MJe6EF2f_Rtfaxz2pLZ0rUUmukn4w9Bmd2j56YcnRAxXD-UXUHe8O02rAoRdyW5oCeXy9C3s9OeEyMYqVWxtYtYBhmVeMQ/s320/untitled.bmp" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5356072195967938482" /></a>Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-90941455647643722162009-06-16T10:06:00.002-04:002009-06-16T10:09:33.573-04:00Mom's "hand"Here's a picture of mom's "hand" as of last week. She's got 7 more weeks to go before she gets this contraption off. So, pray for more grace and more patience and <strong>more safety </strong>for this crazy family!! :)<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQrLfmFwpI4dk7o3DtrPXbWXPp0u7xD1Qd35COJg2UtFTossgXfYQ9gqkjBxwfD8WCW38bu9Kdsj-JLnfbrrV0qbV9u4FBHMdQThdb6dJsGuY8K1HmGXvnSjTPOYbhyphenhyphenJgIt_FgZiHKEQp8/s1600-h/untitled123.bmp"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQrLfmFwpI4dk7o3DtrPXbWXPp0u7xD1Qd35COJg2UtFTossgXfYQ9gqkjBxwfD8WCW38bu9Kdsj-JLnfbrrV0qbV9u4FBHMdQThdb6dJsGuY8K1HmGXvnSjTPOYbhyphenhyphenJgIt_FgZiHKEQp8/s320/untitled123.bmp" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5347926927884027858" /></a>Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-86093993743337874982009-06-10T14:06:00.002-04:002009-06-10T14:30:06.106-04:00Wednesday, June 10, 2:05 PMWell, we can most definitely say that there is never a dull moment in the Newman family. Although, these days most of us are wishing and praying for some dull moments around this place. :)<br /><br />You may or may not know that my mom was in a car accident about a week and a half ago. A man ran a red light and she ran into him and then a post. She, for the most part, is OK. Though the car is totalled, her hand is the only part of her body that suffered any severe amount of damage. Now, she has a cast and a very awkward contraption attached to it which makes everyday activities difficult. You can only imagine the frustration that also comes with all of this for her. So, please keep her in your prayers. The doctor told her that she would need to keep the cast on for the next 6-8 weeks. Charlie said if he didn't know better he'd think our family was part of some insurance scam - see dad on his crutches, Jonathan still healing and mom walk in with this big ol cast on her arm and you might think the same thing. :)<br /><br />As far as Jonathan - physically he's doing well. He has to wear a brace on his right elbow at night that helps to stretch it out little by little. The doctor said that this may help without having to have surgery. So, he is trying this option first. His frustrations get the best of him sometimes. This past week was a rough week. Outburst seemed more extreme than before and we are all still learning what it truly means to have grace. often times it's our families, unfortunately, that seem to get the least dosage of our grace while others that we don't even know get the most. So, please, please, continue to pray that Jonathan would control his frustrations before they turn into angry outburst and inappropriate behavior. In the same prayers, lift us up - that his family would know when to speak and when to be quite; when to back off and when to move in. . . we're all still learning. This is life now. It's all still new, yet we're living it day by day. We're still ever so much in need of your prayers. Some would say the hard part is over. I tell you what, <strong>those people would </strong><strong>be wrong!</strong> For Jonathan and for us, <em>this</em> is the difficult part. The <em>"living it"</em> part always is. So, please continue to lift Jonathan and the family up in prayers. God is working. That is evident, or the enemy wouldn't be fighting this hard. <br /><br />Thank you, thank you, thank you for your continued prayers. They are much needed and much appreciated. Also, please know that we thank God every day for you all - even though we may not know you personally. We pray that God would bless you and meet your needs as you have faithfully prayed the same for us! God Bless!!Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-55000996383978682762009-05-22T08:55:00.004-04:002009-05-26T16:11:21.267-04:00Jonathan's DemoThe music is hard to hear on the video,but the words are what's important. Keep your eye on Charlie in all his "thug" glory - you're defnintely going to smile :)<br /><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/TqxgManDSbc&hl=en&fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/TqxgManDSbc&hl=en&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object>Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-86024049947573317392009-05-18T11:28:00.002-04:002009-05-18T11:41:48.292-04:00Monday, May 18, 11:30 AMIt's been 3 weeks since I've posted any updates. Life is pretty much the same with very few big changes. Since the celebration things have been pretty steady. Jonathan has been released from physical therapy. He is doing great walking, so much so that he does not need physical therapy any longer. Further exercises and strengthening will be done on his own. He is still going to occupational therapy on Monday's and Friday's because his right elbow still is not able to fully extend and he is limited in his use of his right arm because of it. Wednesday's he, along with my parents, attend a nuero-physicologist therapy session. His understanding of things is great. It is the controlling of certain reactions that is difficult. We are still learning how to adjust to it all. Life is different now. He still has no sight in his right eye and therefore his abilities in many areas of life are limited. That's frustrating! He still does not have his full independence because of his reliance on others for many things still. It's a tough road to walk, but God is teaching us grace. Although, we readily admit that we, like all doctors, are still "in practice". It's tough. Honestly, sometimes it really tough, but the alternative, him not being here, would have been heart breaking. So, we're thankful, in the midst of the frustration :) <br /><br />At the end of June Jonathan has a psych eval. IT is two days long and the results will determine if he is released to drive and work and many other things. He is VERY anxious to take the test and praying he passes with flying colors. So, please, keep that in your prayers. That God's perfect timing and hand would be present. He knows what is best - always. So, we're trusting. <br /><br />Thank you so much for all of your prayers. The updates are becoming very sporadic I know and will most likely continue to be that way. This is simply life now. We are all just trying our best to live it out each day. So, though you may not get frequent updates, please keep up those frequent prayers. We are still ever so in need of them!! :)Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-27290404054455766232009-04-30T09:46:00.003-04:002009-04-30T09:50:11.789-04:00Thursday, April 30, 9:45 AMI promised to post some pictures from Sunday. Here are a few, with more soon to come.<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiMO1B_Nmz9ylNyOalMYbz9PRvaiInupSLunf5rBxAfVMTfIy9jQQEeyXeDqb61GQ6ME0otPuJBfvN7Wgz773YxcKtmParCbR2nEJRESKoFxafepyyko1eruoOgL8BTf2HpQ37zXEKK5HEs/s1600-h/IMG_0544%5B1%5D.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiMO1B_Nmz9ylNyOalMYbz9PRvaiInupSLunf5rBxAfVMTfIy9jQQEeyXeDqb61GQ6ME0otPuJBfvN7Wgz773YxcKtmParCbR2nEJRESKoFxafepyyko1eruoOgL8BTf2HpQ37zXEKK5HEs/s320/IMG_0544%5B1%5D.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5330481141927877682" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhSdQ5SYHy_aqAHC4PQ-iT5FAWQdqc2CEHXacVuvgxmHrcpk_QwUNHYYyFd63N9JEibOWvzHrKYOOue7X3h4MPym7eZE2nlWcp1A7saViHsohbcYF-PjG_5uENLkpWe00yxXvlrVYZhDOSQ/s1600-h/IMG_0534%5B1%5D.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhSdQ5SYHy_aqAHC4PQ-iT5FAWQdqc2CEHXacVuvgxmHrcpk_QwUNHYYyFd63N9JEibOWvzHrKYOOue7X3h4MPym7eZE2nlWcp1A7saViHsohbcYF-PjG_5uENLkpWe00yxXvlrVYZhDOSQ/s320/IMG_0534%5B1%5D.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5330481019943277074" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjprXdHtnfFBvDDrb1JZk4wBgLkc6Onp14_JRmmgf390jUt_dvqzeGTwHMz1a_iHkdQ2bdf6mL9qfuoeAOd71v0SP162OBV3jAWVRLSE9F3rWKWy2Rp6IEfu_-hmwLyVrigyC7pP2-s4GNN/s1600-h/DSC00685%5B1%5D.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjprXdHtnfFBvDDrb1JZk4wBgLkc6Onp14_JRmmgf390jUt_dvqzeGTwHMz1a_iHkdQ2bdf6mL9qfuoeAOd71v0SP162OBV3jAWVRLSE9F3rWKWy2Rp6IEfu_-hmwLyVrigyC7pP2-s4GNN/s320/DSC00685%5B1%5D.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5330480734297061346" /></a>Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-54207837641223376352009-04-28T08:41:00.002-04:002009-04-28T08:53:58.731-04:00Tuesday, April 28, 8:40 AMFirst I want to say a big thanks to everyone that showed up on Sunday for Jonathan's celebration. He was amazed that all of you cared enough to come out and show your love for him. He still asks me how I got in touch with some of you and is amazed that so many are still reading his progress and staying tuned to his story. I'm not sure if he'll every really grasp just how many people have been "there" from day 1. If not in person - through this blog and in prayer for him. So, thank you from the bottom of my heart for showing up and showing your love to him. He had a great time seeing your faces , and hearing how you'd been praying! Of course, the crawfish were a big hit, and a shout out to Ryan Derbes for hooking it up. He's a great friend of ours from Louisiana - more like family, and he and his dad did an excellent job. It was like being home!! :)<br /><br />As much fun as Sunday was - by the end of the night Jonathan was ready to call it quits. The few that were still lingering around 9:00PM got a <strong>small</strong> glimpse of the outburst and such that I have asked for prayer concerning. Though, I am thankful that it was not nearly what we experience at home! Please, continue to pray for that end of things. Physically, Jonathan is doing great. Sure, there are some noticeable differences and still he is in the process of recovery, but he's doing phenomenally well in just a 5 month span of time. God has certainly shown Himself strong in my brother! <br /><br />There's not much more to say in the way of updates. So, I will sign off for now and post pictures from Sunday later. For those of you that were part of the "paparazzi" on Sunday :) - if you wouldn't mind sending me a few of your pictures to <br />impactyouth813@yahoo.com <br /><br />Thank you again for all of your prayers. We love you all and simply ask that you continue. Yes, his recovery is going well and the physical evidence of that is strong. However, as Jonathan said on Sunday - God gave him this "Second Chance" for a reason and we are praying that He would not only make that clear for Jonathan, but keep him in His perfect will to complete it!Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-13662691628610152612009-04-21T08:54:00.003-04:002009-04-21T09:32:54.417-04:00Tuesday, April 21, 2009, 8:55 AMIt's been a little while since I've written out an actual update of Jonathan's progress. So, let me take the time to fill you in on all the little details and what's going on:<br /><br />Every Monday, Wednesday and Friday Jonathan has Physical and occupational therapy. He's done remarkably well in both aspects. He's walking completely on his own now and though he's still got his "gangsta limp" it is diminishing slowly but surely. During physical therapy they definitely give him a run for his money. They have him doing squats and other physically demanding exercises for someone in Jonathan's stage of recovery, but he pushes himself to the limit each time. He's definitely determined to be "back to normal" and has been told by others there that he is an inspiration. He is doing most things on his own, though he still requires help with some because of his sight, strength or other physical limitations. This is a far cry from the days when every small task needed personal assistance. The progress he has made in such a relatively short time has been amazing. <br /><br />Thankfully, this week and last, for the most part, has been pretty low-key. His fits of uncontrollable anger have diminished. Sure, anger still ensues at times and words fly out that we'd rather not hear. However, the scary anger has subsided greatly. Please pray that trend will continue, and that Jonathan's frustration and anger would subside altogether. It's still a part of every day. My parents still deal with it mostly as they are with him throughout each week day, but this week has been good so far when compared to what it has been.<br /><br />Rachel, our older sister comes in to town tomorrow for a few days. Jonathan, as well as the rest of the family, is excited to see her. He welcomes a change of pace as his days are pretty consistent - filled will doctors appointments mostly. At the end of the week another great friend of the family is coming into town. If his presence wasn't already enough to be excited about - he's bringing crawfish!! Most of you know our family is from Louisiana and crawfish is one of the many, many things that we miss from home. We've only found 1 place here in FL where they taste even remotely close to what they do back home. So, Jonathan's definitely looking forward to this week and weekend. <br /><br />Last Thursday Jonathan went to go get his prescription filled at Lens Crafters. Because he has no sight in his right eye the folks at Lens Crafters strongly suggested that he not get contacts in the event that he would get an eye infection in his left eye and that affect his vision there too. So, he picked out a pair of glasses and got some shades as well. He said they definitely help his vision. Although, Saturday he came to me questioning if he looked OK with them and calling himself four-eyes. I told him he definitely looks good. He always will. He's one of the most handsome guys I know. To prove my point and to make you all smile - here's a picture of Jonathan showing off his new glasses.<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEipi6clKh460CiVPzFanC8T89jkcggvsOb_jHVtWx-fugtmAq6_aOi8Q8DBp2bivis4bd_LnVdiwgXAUPRzYx8i1k0bxgaCc-HwpaKeZOl7JeEFSbEFHcPWQVRVA6SQElL7I6q5kjBFYrRM/s1600-h/3462773564_a0fe3c82f9.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 291px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEipi6clKh460CiVPzFanC8T89jkcggvsOb_jHVtWx-fugtmAq6_aOi8Q8DBp2bivis4bd_LnVdiwgXAUPRzYx8i1k0bxgaCc-HwpaKeZOl7JeEFSbEFHcPWQVRVA6SQElL7I6q5kjBFYrRM/s320/3462773564_a0fe3c82f9.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5327134244478774002" /></a><br /><br />Please, as you have done so faithfully from the beginning, continue to pray. Jonathan's come so far and the journey of all of this is just starting to unfold. In just a few days we will be celebrating 5 months from the day that God reminded us just how precious life is. The day that God kept Jonathan and the day that started a journey of faith that we have yet to fully realize!Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-53762864604384931402009-04-16T10:38:00.002-04:002009-04-16T10:42:03.490-04:00Thursday, April 15, 2009, 10:40 AMHere's a little video of us at the house - again, silliness ensues :)<br />Here's a little rap for ya from "Second Chance"<br /><br /><object type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="400" height="300" data="http://www.flickr.com/apps/video/stewart.swf?v=70848" classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000"> <param name="flashvars" value="intl_lang=en-us&photo_secret=826abf1376&photo_id=3403522318"></param> <param name="movie" value="http://www.flickr.com/apps/video/stewart.swf?v=70848"></param> <param name="bgcolor" value="#000000"></param> <param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><embed type="application/x-shockwave-flash" src="http://www.flickr.com/apps/video/stewart.swf?v=70848" bgcolor="#000000" allowfullscreen="true" flashvars="intl_lang=en-us&photo_secret=826abf1376&photo_id=3403522318" height="300" width="400"></embed></object>Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-46281868178343778172009-04-15T14:28:00.003-04:002009-04-15T14:37:27.860-04:00Wednesday, April 15, 2:30 PMAgain, my apologies for not posting more frequent updates. The truth of the matter is this - the news of things to post is dwindling. The days are much of the same - Monday, Wednesday and Friday he has Physical Therapy and Occupational Therapy appointments. Often on Tuesday and Thursday other oppointments of some kind occur. Mainly life consists of doctor visits, tests and calling to schedule more of the same. <br /><br />Jonathan is very excited to see everyone. If you have not received information about Jonathan's Celebration and would like to - please email me at Impactyouth813@yahoo.com<br /><br />Last night we made a video message from Jonathan. So, look back for that soon.<br />Thanks for all of your prayers. They are constantly needed!Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-13385726028797368522009-04-08T09:15:00.002-04:002009-04-08T09:43:26.286-04:00Wednesday, April 8, 9:15 AMIt seems these updates are getting less and less frequent. I'll try to pick it up, but truly - the days seem just to run together most of the time. Yesterday, Jonathan had an appointment with a opthamologist. He is a specialist in this field, and very thorough in his exam according to my mom. He informed Jonathan and my parents, as the other doctor had, that there is severe nerve damage in his right eye and that his sight would not get any better or any worse. I'm not sure how it could get worse as he has no sight whatsoever. He can't see shadows or light of any sort. He also said that the vision in his left eye is not great, but most of it could be corrected with prescription glasses or contact. So, we'll move in that direction very soon. Of course, the confirmation of that news was hard to take. Jonathan of course doesn't express it in emotions of sadness, but we knew it was hard for him to handle - as it would be for anyone. Of course, we are believing that he will be healed - no doubt about that! This is simply another way for God to show up and show off. It's just dealing with the process until then that at times gets to be a lot. <br /><br />There's a lot of waiting these days for Jonathan. Each doctor's appointment seems like an eternity to him spent waiting in the waiting room, finally called in the back only to wait some more, waiting for his body to heal, waiting for life to resume "normalcy", etc. There must be some connection with patience and being a patient! He's having a hard time with that part. We can only imagine what it's like to have to wait on everything and everyone before anything can be done. To have to rely on someone else to go to the store, to take a walk, to make an appointment, to make any type of plans - frustrating is not even close to describing that feeling I'm sure. But, he's holding on! He gets tired some days and anger follows suit. HE gets frustrated at times and outburst take place. He feels trapped often and certain words come flying out that we'd rather not hear, but it and we are all still "in process". Even through all of those feelings - he never gives up. He still keeps pushing, fighting and pressing. <br /><br />He is officially walking on his own - without any assistance of a walker or cane, and he's doing great. He's still got what Charlie calls "a gangsta limp", but even that is diminishing slowly but surely. He's getting stronger and gaining back his balance. It's amazing how far he's come!!<br /><br />I have received many emails regarding interest in the gathering we're having to celebrate Jonathan's second chance. Thank you for all that have responded. If you are interested in attending please send me an email to impactyouth813@yahoo.com. In order to get a quick head count and RSVP I will be sending out an e-Vite by this Friday. <br /><br />Thank you for all of your continued prayers. We will continue asking you for them. We need wisdom, strength and grace each day to keep going. Jonathan needs healing in a lot of areas still. Continue to pray that God would restore sight to his right eye, that his right elbow would regain it's normal range of motion and extension, that he legs wold regain strength, that his blood pressure and heart rate would finally normalize, that he would have peace of mind and of spirit, that his anger would subside and that God would continue to speak. God's got great plans for him. I know that this is not even the beginning of all that God desires to do in and through him. So, please continue to pray. We're <em>all</em> still a work in progress, and we all need strength to continue to stand through the process! :)Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-80163599369447151802009-04-04T22:53:00.000-04:002009-04-04T22:54:30.033-04:00Saturday, April 4, 10:55 PMA video message from Jonathan:<br /><br /><object type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="400" height="300" data="http://www.flickr.com/apps/video/stewart.swf?v=68975" classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000"> <param name="flashvars" value="intl_lang=en-us&photo_secret=6d1aea84e8&photo_id=3412758633"></param> <param name="movie" value="http://www.flickr.com/apps/video/stewart.swf?v=68975"></param> <param name="bgcolor" value="#000000"></param> <param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><embed type="application/x-shockwave-flash" src="http://www.flickr.com/apps/video/stewart.swf?v=68975" bgcolor="#000000" allowfullscreen="true" flashvars="intl_lang=en-us&photo_secret=6d1aea84e8&photo_id=3412758633" height="300" width="400"></embed></object>Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594238784730787973.post-81822605079183220172009-04-01T09:42:00.004-04:002009-04-01T10:14:11.594-04:00Wednesday, April 1, 9:40 AMHard to believe that it's already April. Even harder to believe that it's been already 4 months since Jonathan's accident. On Saturday I had some pictures printed of Jonathan that we had taken while he was in the hospital. We started taking pictures on the 4Th or 5Th day and continued throughout. We definitely felt it super important so that people could not only read, but one day, physically see all the miracles that God has done. Last night as the family was all together I brought the pictures out and Jonathan took a look. He was amazed! He still doesn't have a full grasp of just how bad he was. Although, I think the pictures of himself in that condition helped to bring that reality a little closer. Even though we saw him every day and saw the transformation before our eyes - we still forget. It's an odd wave of emotions to see the pictures again. I admitted last night that as I was in Target printing the pictures off I got a little teary eyed. How could I not. He's come so far. God has done so much, and that's the story those pictures tell!!<br /><br />Some of you have yet to see Jonathan since the accident. Some of you have never before met him and still you pray. While few have had the opportunity to see in person all that God's grace has accomplished. One of the biggest accomplishments is that Jonathan's physical healing has been amazing. In fact, according to the physical therapist - Jonathan should be walking on his own by next week!! Jonathan is more than thrilled about that. Of course, his walk is not back to "normal" yet. He's still slow, as his steps are still a little difficult. He is still learning to balance his weight between both legs. He's still in progress. Please continue to pray for his physical and spiritual strength to be renewed. Yesterday we got a good report from the doctor. As many of you know - Jonathan was a big fella before this accident. He went into the hospital weighing at least 205lbs. of muscle. He came out at about 120 lbs. Last week as they weighed him the result was 125 lbs. Well, this week he weighed in at 136 lbs.!! We've been trying to put weight pack on him to build up his strength. So, 11 lbs. in one week is an accomplishment!<br /><br />His outburst are still much of the same. His feuding with everyone about everything is still taking place. Although, as with the rest of us - he has his good days when there's not a single fight and other days when everything sets him off. So, please pray that the first would out-number the 2ND. We appreciate your prayers, and are in constant need of them. <br /><br />The family is planning a special celebration for Jonathan - to celebrate this second chance. Please send me your email address if you are interested in information about this event. You can email me at Impactyouth813@yahoo.com<br /><br />Last night, we were hanging out being silly, as we Newman's like to do. In the midst of some music playing - some dancing started taking place. Jonathan was bustin' a move! :) He's been told that he dances better now than he did before. You be the judge. Hope this brings a smile to every one's faces as you see Jonathan in his truest form! <br /><br /><object type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="400" height="300" data="http://www.flickr.com/apps/video/stewart.swf?v=68975" classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000"> <param name="flashvars" value="intl_lang=en-us&photo_secret=12a6995358&photo_id=3403538212"></param> <param name="movie" value="http://www.flickr.com/apps/video/stewart.swf?v=68975"></param> <param name="bgcolor" value="#000000"></param> <param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><embed type="application/x-shockwave-flash" src="http://www.flickr.com/apps/video/stewart.swf?v=68975" bgcolor="#000000" allowfullscreen="true" flashvars="intl_lang=en-us&photo_secret=12a6995358&photo_id=3403538212" height="300" width="400"></embed></object>Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107516746910784053noreply@blogger.com7